Being female refers to identifying as a woman or belonging to the female sex, nothing else. Gender identity and biological sex are complex and multifaceted aspects of human identity. It is important to recognize and respect the diversity of experiences and perspectives among individuals who identify as female. In many societies, women have historically faced various forms of discrimination and inequality. Efforts have been made to promote gender equality and empower women in education employment, politics, and social rights. However, challenges and disparities still exist in different parts of the world and throughout society. In addition to the numerous experiences, I've personally had which stemmed from abusive behaviors of white women (who I consider extremely abusive). Those white women suffer from serious low self-esteem which was imposed on me and in turn resentment and lack of trust formed. White people (not Americans) are generally scared of people of color is the reason they act out with STUPIDITY AND IGNORANCE. Yet white women make a habit of dumping their personal problems on women of color refusing to figure out life for themselves. I say this because white females are not interested in sharing as you may have experienced many of them want to judge you and make you feel bad just as they do. I have a theory that white men have caused more abuse and lack of trust from heinous behavior which can set off a retaliation against people of color. I've observed white women compared to women of color in everyday society and the abuse and ignorance of white women is unmeasurable.
It's so rare for white women who never include women of color as a part of the group, especially in activism will openly speak about problems all women face. White women will always find ways to put women of color down with verbal and mental cruelty placing themselves at the top. Yet white women are arrested and some are not) for sex with minors and murdering their children. Men are GUILTY of being under the illusion of viewing white women as some kind of "virgin queen" only to discover many are unstable and psycho abandoning or killing their children. White women make no real attempt to bond with their children, but they're the first to throw them out the door before 18. There are disparities in every area of life and sisterhood among women will never exist which is most unfortunate because white women think they're better than women of color. The truth is they're not, just more fucked up. As for men, they have been dating dark-haired women and realizing the demands women have financially, and it's not just white bitches who demand money, it's all women now. Relationships are not based on love between men and women, it's based on status and money, and it's the reason relationships never last. As soon as the man finds a younger prettier version he's gone and the post-wife is sucking everything she can get out of him.
In all fairness both sexes have become so unbalanced men have become the weaker sex with a lack of courage and are more alone than ever. 1/3 of those men are homosexuals and the rest are in prison or broken from drug addictions. There are no men left for women to depend on or have healthy relationships with. Yet women have become over-aggressive and unsatisfied if they can't have all they want at their beck and call. When I think about women's aggression in general maybe with all the crap on social media and the lack of men available it might be the cause of why women have stepped into their masculine aspect. Or maybe they choose to be a cunt either way you can still live a good life and find some peace without men. It's best to depend on you and be your authentic self.
Recently a few incidents have caused me to realize women of all races are becoming a problem in everyday society within public space as a collective for the most petty of reasons. Let me provide an example I went to Starbucks early one morning and sat at the back table because it had a wall plug. This Asian bitch walks in staring at me as I look up, she puts on a fake smile to later complain after her fat friend walked in, bitching about why they can't sit at the table I am sitting at? These hoes are complaining over a fucken table so I decided to sit there all day! It's bad enough that equality will NEVER exist and the white race still gets paid far more money for the same fucken jobs women of color perform, but when the female cunt becomes a dominating sex in society instead of creating balance someone needs to step in and speak out. Female energy today has become a negative energy in society which creates problems in the family and for men who want to have personal relationships with women.
Men are beginning to view women as a threat and will choose not to trust women and are less likely to bond in relationships. As women become more aggressive men will sense they're being devoured. Unhealthy relationships will become the new drug and women will be angered towards men and view them as weak and incompetent to be a protector and financial provider. Another reason why relationships will fail, of course they fail now since most relationships are based on lies and monetary gain. Since we're on the subject I'm going to throw this out there. Just because you have a pussy, stop depending on men to support you. Females use the pussy to have a child for financial leverage or prostitution (which I will touch base on later naming the various forms of prostitution). However, being Female does have its advantages, doesn't it? Let's talk about a few other areas before I get crazy.
Getting Up in the Morning: It's important to feel good when you wake up in the morning, so you are in a good mood, feeling calm, and
can focus on work. A light breakfast to start the day and avoid
caffeine it has poor side effects. Plenty of rest is vital to
looking and feeling good. Staying away from the booze and partying all night will wear
on you and how feel and when hung over it takes a toll on your body. Good
positive energy should be consistent especially as a woman grows older. Time goes by so
fast after 30. If you can go for a quick walk after breakfast and get the
day started you will have plenty of energy to get everything else done and come
home feeling accomplished.
Looking Pretty: If you follow a consistent pattern of behavior and get plenty of rest waking up on time and feeling rested, you should have plenty of time to put your make-up on. I never understood women lacking time. Running late and putting mascara on when driving. There is plenty of time in a day to get everything done using time efficiently to put your make-up on at home so you look pretty and refreshed as you walk out the door. Remember looking pretty is for you not to impress the rest of the world, when you shine with confidence and look great walking out the door, you empower yourself.
Working Hard to Buy Clothes: Not everyone can start off with a great wardrobe and the best of everything costs more money than most people can afford to spend. When you work hard you deserve the best, so don't be frugal. However, there are so many ways to mix and match and to shop at Macy's when sales hit, and with all the new online fashions you should always treat yourself every pay day if you can. Before you know it you have an amazing new wardrobe. Never forget when you look great you feel great and there are plenty of outlet stores with name brands at low prices you just have to look. There are ways to shop and still look like a million bucks. Plus you work hard to earn that money, splurge on yourself, and look good for yourself not to impress anyone else. Confidence is key.
Working Hard to Feel Accomplished: It's a tough life and when you're young there are options although no one might tell you of this. It's hard to figure out an area of interest to work in and make a good living from. Begin with this write a list of a few things you really love and ask yourself how can I make money from it? It's hard to know if you'll be happy with the work you do as most people are not. Either you work for yourself or you work for someone else as a slave. Nothing is bothersome when trying hard and finding out you can't have what you want because of discrimination when applying for regular crap jobs. Yes, it does exist in this shit society. Whites and Asian people at the top are the ones to blame for this discrimination. The best way to go is to work for yourself. If you can find a passion and make money from it accomplish what you truly desire. Not what the family or friends want you to do, but what you desire for yourself. Then you can feel accomplished. Never think it's too late, it's never too late to begin a new adventure or project no one has thought of. Be courageous and think outside the box, you don't need to follow trends or other people for example this society has too many ignorant lawyers who don't care about clients, their interest is how much money they fuck you out of and making a name for themself. Being a lawyer is not glamorous or worth the headache.
Being Female is Empowering: Being a female is empowering and women know how to play the game well to get what they want and most of the time it works. It can be empowering to be the only attractive woman walking into a place where men hang out, such as a ball game or sports bar. It can be empowering when you're the boss and calling the shots. It can be empowering when you have a man by his balls and he can't live without you. It can be empowering when you're the star of the show and your talent proves your existence. It can be empowering when wearing a sexy dress. It can be empowering to have a great rack and know they're real instead of plastic surgery. It can be empowering when you still look young and you're over 50. It can be empowering when your husband cheats and you control his money. It is EMPOWERING KNOW YOU HAVE A PUSSY!
Working Out I am Mentally Strong: This helps as women tend to deal with everyone's problems especially if you've had kids and a husband who watches too many cooking shows instead of having adult conversations. Take at least an hour out of your day and work out or just go for walks. 30 minutes of yardwork is equal to a workout at the gym. Working out is beneficial for many reasons dealing with stress is one of them. It helps to cope with problems, and working out keeps calories down because you might find yourself eating a lot at the age of 40 or when you're depressed. Working out releases anger that is built up and helps you to sweat out a hangover if you drank too much the night before. If you work out you can sleep better and good cardio is vital to a healthy lifestyle.
You Don't Need Men, they Need You: This is actually a contradiction in terms because women and men need each other in different ways, but women have learned to live without men and can still live a longer life. The key is being happy within yourself or finding satisfaction and fulfillment in life. Many women will say "I don't need a man, I want one". This is the ego talking as I have been guilty of that myself but people won't have healthy relationships if they're not honest with each other and have real love (which is rare). How many times have you told a man you're not interested? How many times has a man rejected your advances? How many people in the world actually come together because their eyes cross and the two have an instant attraction? That too is rare. I am no expert in the love business, so interviewing people before getting involved makes sense, just living together before marriage. Once you marry realize you're going to be miserable, maybe? Men want little girls or Barbie dolls and women want a phat bank account to be spoiled with. I don't think the sexes will ever see "eye to eye". The point is, that men will always need women more than a woman needs a man, but women live longer.
Enjoying My Own Company: The many times I've invited and paid to have a man escort me to a show or go to dinner I realized I could have had a better time by myself. I am comfortable in my own skin enjoying my own company. I don't need a man to take me anywhere as I've traveled alone, gone to the movies alone, and had dinner alone. Universal Studios Horror night I had a great time. I've done many things alone and enjoyed my own company every time. It's the few times I've taken someone with me that person ruined it for me. I once traveled to another country with a friend and she was a pain in the ass and stole 100 dollars from my suitcase. She was no friend just another insecure cunt. All I'm saying is you can enjoy your own company, you don't need anyone to have a nice time and frankly, it will cost you less.
Peace and Tranquility: Once you've dated all the losers your mind can take and have sex like a maniac (some great others you want to forget). You go through kids husband, divorce, and the single life all over again. Now you are older and have grown up and learned your worth as a woman. Your confidence is at its peak, you are smart, and understand the complexity of life for the most part. All your heart seeks is peace of mind, and comfort. You don't need chaos, you don't want to hear bullshit from anyone. Although society and people are a mess it's vital to find inner tranquility because life is short and can end at any time. You realize how precious time is and it waits for no one. All the little things in life become important and you appreciate them much more. People who are 40 years to 45 I noticed have a negative attitude which might be the cause for most of the pitfalls and negative energy they received from outsiders and family. Or they haven't discovered their worth as a human being, it's important to know who you are.
Loving Myself Be Authentic: I can't stress this anymore than I have. There are four stages to life born and young - midlife change (discovering your identity) - past 50 grown up - old age near death. In between all of this life has been up and down like a roller coaster, but it's better than the merry-go-round :-). What have you learned? And don't say, I don't know, that is pathetic because if you haven't learned from all the mistakes in life and grown up now that you are past 50. Well, there is no hope for you, your ignorance is sublime. However, I want to be positive so let's say it's good you're not a millionaire, but your house is paid off and you're okay financially. You have no debt, you own no money, and you're off parole, just kidding. Now that you are all grown up just appreciate who you are, love yourself, and be good to yourself. Laugh at yourself or cry, just be who you are meant to be and if you don't know who that is, then figure it out, do some soul searching or shadow work, and dig deep into the darkness and pull that scared kid out. To be Authentic is a part of Self Identity. You are a complex being and admitting your mishaps is okay as long as you learn from the lessons and force yourself to see who you are. Once that is accomplished you can be whatever you want. If you are not past 50 don't worry it's on the way, apply the same advice.
HAVING SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME WAS A BIG MISTAKE - KNOW YOUR VALUE AND WORTH!
The first time I had sex wasn't exciting, I felt as if I wasn't there. I was 16 years old and Troy Armstrong was 17 years old. Both of us attended the same high school, but this guy was chasing any pussy he could get his hands on. I was unaware of his intentions but easily fell into his trap. The first male sperm who manipulated me is now dead. Oh, I didn't kill him he died years ago of cancer, so I heard and frankly, I couldn't care less. I'm grateful I didn't get pregnant that would have been a nightmare. I knew of a girl who did get pregnant she was in the 9th grade and it was from her 8th-grade boyfriend. How she paid for an abortion because her mom would give her 50 dollars a week to clean the house and she would save her money. Frankly, it's disturbing how a girl in the 9th grade can get this procedure without her parent's consent and pay for a 300-dollar abortion. The clinic didn't bother to notify her parents at all. Many girls in high school were having unprotected sex, which is dangerous. Now that I'm 57 I look back and realize that ditching school and fucking around was irresponsible and a huge waste of time and stupidity when I should have been studying. No one ever spoke about the future not the teachers, not my parents, no one.
Being a teenager was so confusing and kids in school were separated into clicks and groups which I never understood then, but society is the same everywhere and I understand it now, especially how it causes problems and separates the races. White kids who showed more interest were favored by teachers who gave them entitlements and kids who were not white were pushed to the side. I was hanging around with all the wrong kids, but when you're a kid you don't see the difference of what you're doing compared to what you should be doing until it's too late. The few friends I thought were friends came from single parents and I never thought twice about it, they ran wild, having sex, doing drugs, drinking, and partying and it all added up to nothing. It really had no value. Now if I compare those kids to kids living in Beverly Hills it's no different because rich kids can get into just as much trouble. They just have more money to spend on their drugs, especially in college. I was naive I had no idea the "WHISKEY GO GO", was an hour away in West Hollywood. I always wanted to be a rock star and little did I know, I probably could have been if I had the confidence and encouragement. Sometimes I wonder because I had kids too young if it kept me grounded? Some females are never grounded but being a parent is a HUGE RESPONSIBILITY and people abuse it and their children. I don't need to explain this you can see what's happening to females who abuse and abandon their children. It's best to take the less-traveled road and live your dreams. Protect yourself because he won't.
Having sex with young guys is never good, the experience is too premature and immature that any male knows what he is doing and no one has an understanding of their body enough to enjoy the sex at least I never did. Frankly, it's pointless. I experienced it several times throughout high school and every episode was a disappointment, so that should say something. Being a young person you just go through events in your life and it's like, why did I do that? Why am I wasting my time with this loser? I was wasting my time with unappreciated ass-wads who didn't know how to treat a female to begin with. In all seriousness you don't want to be PREGNANT or catch a DISEASE, it's not worth it. No one is going to care and your health will be jeopardized. Speaking of which I had a good friend named Ray-linh (I've mentioned her before) she was mature for her age so I thought. Actually, she used sex as a weapon and trained boys in high school to be her slave and it worked. These young guys were whipped and their heads were spinning but eventually Ray-linh would dump them when she became bored. I never understood her intentions or it's possible it was insecurity, but when I think about it she wanted Steve Vego so much and he didn't want her, it may be her reason for using these guys to get back at him. Ray-linh was like no other girl in high school I knew she threw the sickest parties, grew weed in her bedroom, and came from an adopted single mom and had five siblings. She was a good friend but very insecure with herself.
There was a radio show years ago and the DJ had a call of a young girl in high school bragging about how her friends and her were fucking the sports coaches at the high school. Those men are so stupid they could have been sent to prison for statutory rape, it doesn't matter if it's consensual, they were underage. I can recall this loser Tony who was over 25 living with his parents and driving back and forth in front of the school when the kids were let out trying to pick up underage girls. What a pig, years later I saw him at a video store I was tempted to say something but I didn't. If I had he would have been in trouble with what looked like his wife. As the years passed I had more lovers and one-nighters I care to remember. Frankly, I can't recall most of them, and some I rather forget. I've grown up since then and being older I won't waste time with losers anymore. I am aware as a woman of my value but it's best to look deep within yourself and see your value now as a woman regardless of your age. Sex is good when it's with someone you really love, this is the reason it's not worth wasting your time with people who will never appreciate you. Waiting for someone who appreciates you might be worth waiting for, then investing your time.
The girls I knew in high school spent so much time with guys that had no future, these guys were dropouts, in and out of prison, no jobs, losers like the Yancy Bros. Most of these guys were not peers of our age, but older over 20. Linda Gluck was pregnant several times before graduating which she never accomplished from guys over 20 who should have been in prison. She had 4 abortions before the age of 19 and her mother took her everytime. Another problem was friends of mine fucking their aunt's boyfriend who was 35 and she was 16 which she later bragged about to me. Trust me your not missing anything so don't allow yourself to be manipulated by a loser or anyone, or pressured with sex you will later regret. Don't get me wrong I don't view it as dirty, but what is the point in doing favors for ungrateful ass-wads who are losers and will never appreciate you or willing to do anything for you? Save yourself for relationships that you find worth investing in. Know your worth as a young woman and your value because you matter.